I came across this story recently and I wish I could find a reference for it so please let me know if you know it. It is about something we need rather badly now as it seems the world is spinning on out of control fear which has led to some very sad behavior choices.
This story helped me and I hope it will be an inspiration to you. It’s called The Four Candles.
The Four Candles burned
slowly. Their Ambiance was so
soft you could hear them
speak…
The First Candle said, “I Am
Peace, but these days, nobody
wants to keep me lit.” Then
Peace’s flame slowly
diminishes and goes out
completely.
The Second Candle said, “I Am
Faith, but these days, I am no
longer indispensable.” Then
Faith’s flame slowly
diminishes and goes out
completely.
Sadly The Third Candle Speaks,
“I Am Love and I haven’t the
strength to stay lit any
longer. People put me aside
and don’t understand my
importance. They even forget
to love those who are nearest
to them.” Waiting no longer,
Love goes out completely.
Suddenly…A child enters the
room and sees the three
candles no longer burning. The
child begins to cry, “Why are
you not burning? You are
supposed to stay lit until the
end!”
Then The Fourth Candle speaks
gently to the little child,
“Don’t be afraid, for I Am
Hope, and while I still burn,
we can re-light the other
candles.”
With Shining Eyes the child
took the Candle Of Hope and
lit the other three candles.
Never let the Flame Of Hope go
out of your life. With Hope,
no matter how bad things look
and are…Peace, Faith and
Love can Shine Brightly in our
lives.
How can you kindle the hope in your life? What part of your faith, peace or love is difficult to hold on to and what will help you with this? Alternatively, is there something that is asking to be released from your life?
Your inner wisdom can help you decide if something needs to shift during this time of renewal and re-evaluation of our lives. Sometimes when we let go of one thing, something else quite unexpected comes into our lives and it renews our love, peace, faith and hope.
There are gifts for many people in this strange time but it may be difficult to see them, especially if you are not paying attention or drowning out the full range of emotions through too much news or social media or incessant conversations about the situation that is feeding your F.E.A.R. (see my last couple of blog posts for more on this). Yes, there may be pain for many, many people but that is part of life, just like death. The old saying stands true, “Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice.”
Take this time to see where your sense of Peace, Faith, Love and especially Hope stands. What will help you light your candles and keep them lit? Focus on that and you get through this with many more gifts than you realize. If you need help finding them, as many will, please reach out for help. You deserve to keep all four candles of your life LIT.
One of the best things you can do to renew hope is to go outside in the sunshine (which is a natural disinfectant), into nature and just take it all in through your 5 senses with curiosity, play and exploration. Mother Nature is still here for us and she is finally getting a breather too.
I can be reached for life, wellness and family coaching and/or counseling sessions at jteleia@gmail.com, www.YourLifeWellLived.net.
Thanks for sharing the story. Hope is indeed something we should hold on to especially in times like these.
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Sorry I’m so late to respond. Thank you!!
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